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Essays


10. Offering the Cookie
My friend Patty, like me, has a home/based business. Like mine, her products help people and the environment. Unlike mine, her product...
May 10, 20212 min read


Take a Break
One Friday at the end of a work week I realized that I felt lethargic and really, all I wanted to do was lay on the couch and watch TV. ...
Apr 29, 20213 min read


Badass Habits
I discovered Jen Sincero in my bed one day in 2017. I lay there snuggled with my dogs, Overdrive app open on my ipad, perusing books at...
Apr 29, 20215 min read


Imposter Syndrome
I have a group of friends who I see a couple times a year. We all live hours and hours away from each other, so take turns meeting near...
Apr 29, 20214 min read


Charitable Giving
Generosity is one of the most magical of personal practices, and I highly, highly recommend doing it however you can, with whatever you...
Apr 28, 20215 min read


Anti-Racism
I don’t like talking about race. I never have. It’s uncomfortable and upsetting and makes me, as a white person, feel shame at what...
Apr 28, 20214 min read


The Teacup Lesson
Years and years ago, I hosted a Thanksgiving dinner. This is noteworthy, as I have only, in my life, hosted one Thanksgiving dinner, as...
Apr 28, 20214 min read


Your Community
There's so much going on right now. People are stressed and in shock and depressed and trying to rally and in a daze because no one...
Jan 30, 20172 min read


Radical Self Care
According to Dr. Charles Figley, "Compassion Fatigue is a state experienced by those helping people or animals in distress; it is an...
Jan 26, 20172 min read


What Can I do: Part 2
It seems like every time I have contact with people -- open Facebook, start a discussion, see my grumpy clerk-- there is something new...
Dec 3, 20153 min read


Shopping with the Fat Girl
I am not the biggest fan of clothes shopping. As someone who has been overweight for most of her life, and who has topped out at five...
Oct 27, 20153 min read


What Can I Do Part 1
Two days ago I saw a troubling video on Facebook about dogs being illegally traded for meat and skin in Thailand. It really disturbed me...
Dec 18, 20143 min read


Don't Set Them Free
For sixth grade graduation, we each had to memorize a quote and then, in front of the entire audience recite the quote and say what that...
Oct 11, 20134 min read
Welcome to my library. These essays are about real life, inner work, and the quiet choices that shape who we become.
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